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Networking

Finding Mentors

How to identify, approach, and build relationships with adults who will advocate for you.

Mentors come from everywhere

Your high school teacher. A neighbor who is an engineer. A parent's colleague. A professor from a summer program. A coach. A boss from a part-time job.

The best mentors aren't the most impressive. They're the ones who actually have time for you and care about your growth.

Be a good mentee

Show up on time. Do what you say you'll do. Ask thoughtful questions. Don't be defensive about feedback. Send thank-you notes. Be the kind of person a mentor wants to help.

Quick checklist

  • Identified 3-5 potential mentors
  • Approached one with a specific ask
  • Sent a thank-you note after every meeting
  • Followed up on every commitment
  • Asked for help when I needed it